Ok, that’s not completely true. You need a balance between commitment, emotion, and passion. But this rant deals with the over dependance on emotion in today’s culture.
Emotions are fickle… Advertisers play to our every emotion to sell us a product, movies make us “fall in love” with the characters. The colors in a room can make us more accepting of circumstances, the food we eat can effect our mood. Even body language can play upon our emotions.
To restate, emotions are fickle. They change relative to our environment, our surroundings. The emphasis that the world today places on “love” is simply to get that emotional high. Ie, “if he’s not doing it for you, leave him.” Same reason why the divorce rate in America is over 50%, and many don’t even bother to get married in the first place, because they know they’ll leave for another some time in the future.
True love is based on action, on dedication, on an udnerstanding. Yes, it is God-based, but that’s another topic. It is sticking with it no matter what has happened, no matter how you feel about that person at that time, you don’t reject them, leave them, or denounce them because you have said “I love you.” You have committed yourself. Emotion cannot bring you down, emotion cannot sway that steadfast commitment.
Emotion is temporary. Commitment is what lasts.
I’m sick and tired of the selfish, “easy out” attitude people take in regards to romance. Suck it up, get over it, and stay the course. Marriage is meant to be forever, and that means through the difficult times even more so than the soft ones. Sure, you need emotion for a happy relationship, too – but you don’t have a relationship at all without commitment.
On an unrelated note, if only this was real.